Yes, friends mean well, but they don't understand us. I can't tell you the number of times I've been told I deserve better and some other man would be better for me.

I think of it like this. No one "deserves" cancer or depression, but it still happens. And I chose to marry my H, knowing full well the vow and commitment I was making. The vows do say for better or worse for a reason.

At some point, I may chose to move on, but right now I'm still standing. I'm not sure if I would have had the strength to do so without all of the great people here doing the same thing.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13