Yes, friends mean well, but they don't understand us. I can't tell you the number of times I've been told I deserve better and some other man would be better for me.
I think of it like this. No one "deserves" cancer or depression, but it still happens. And I chose to marry my H, knowing full well the vow and commitment I was making. The vows do say for better or worse for a reason.
At some point, I may chose to move on, but right now I'm still standing. I'm not sure if I would have had the strength to do so without all of the great people here doing the same thing.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13