I think I see the picnic!

[hopefulinga]

Hi vero, you handled that interaction with your H very well. I wish you luck in continuing to set the boundaries with him visiting, etc. You also got great advice in not having the heavy talks when you are emotional. I tend to do some of the things you pointed out that you do, and in hindsight, I can see some of the damage that I have done.

So, good for you in following the advice and trying to create some stability in your life.