I think it's expectations that can get us in trouble. I know, I'm the same way. I'm learning, though, that the best thing to expect is progress, and that there ARE no "instant solutions". I do a lot of whining on here about how much I want, need, desire some ML with W. However, at this point, I'm not even really certain just what that would bring me. I guess I'll wait and see. I think if I expect a huge love explosion, from either of us, I'm likely to be disappointed. Much better to expect some progress, and take things one day at a time...