I am trying to detach and since she's been in her new place and traveling I've not initiated any text or called. I will respond to selective texts and act "busy".
On Sunday I get a text about a party that I had said I was going to attend and at the I decided I would not earlier that day and went home. My W was also going to attend and was driving to the event. When I got to the house I found that her dog (I was going have since she would be working in CA for the week) was not there. So I did respond to an earlier text to see where the dog was and she said with her and then she got extremely mad that I had not informed her of my change in plans and that it would have been nice if I had "informed" her of my changes. Note: She did not inform me that she was bringing the dog either.
The next morning she dropped the dog at the house since I had agreed to keep him for the week and she was much more pleasant. Asked if she could hug me. We talked for 5 minutes max and then she left. She was asking all hurt that I screwed up the party plans.
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...