M-49
W-47
No children
4 dogs
2 cats
M-09/2008
Together 09/1994
Sep - 03/12 (lasted a week) 09/2012 - ???

Thanks for your responses. Since my mom is not doing well at all, I've decided to travel to my home state to be with my family. My W who is working in CA found out and decided she would also go to CA to "support" me. I did not ask her to go, but my cousin had sent her a text saying my mom was gravely ill.

I'm stressed enough and now I have to deal with her being around my family too. Every time she called/texted yesterday I said I would be fine and that I just wanted to spend the weekend with my family, she became agitated and said she wants to "support" me.

M-49
W-47
M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994
No Children
4 dogs/2 cats
EA 11/2010
Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us)
As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...