Journaling:

I'm a little confuse here...tonight after talking about how uncomfortable the extra bed in s13's room I told W she can sleep in MBR. She then ask me where would I sleep? I told her well same bed on my side. I ask her if she want me to and she told me its up to me.

The giving "space" i think is working by sleeping separate rooms, do you guys think it's too soon or should I keep giving her that "space" and sleep in s3s room?

I really think that we are close to ML but I think I should wait it out more. I can't believe I'm saying wait it out on ML--WTH

I just don't wanna mess up these positives...

Are her walls coming down? Do I keep backing off and build more on this and sit on this for a while?

I'm not complaining just need some guidance--is this normal for WAS?

Newman


me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.