Today, after a few more months went by, I put my ring on for the trade show outing I went on today. She had to have seen it, but did not comment. I'm planning to start wearing it more and more and see what happens.
Understand that she cam smell a trick.
If you are wearing the ring for YOU then that is fine, but she will see it as a trick to try to get her back and for that reason it will fail.
You must make changes for YOU.
Take the focus off of her and what she thinks, she is lost and you watching her is not going to help her to find herself.