I like the advice you're sharing here. I've had a lot of stress trying to figure out how to approach my H with some issues that I've been dealing with. The things you've mentioned are some things that I'm going to have to ponder. Thanks for sharing!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.