Maybe it will just take some time. Its hard to get too excited about one time when its been a long time coming. I went for almost 5 years before anything physical. It was right before new years when H said he wanted to try to make things right. We haven't had any full blown sex yet, just twice of playing around and Ummmmmm oral, which I could not even get into. I know for myself I am pretty skeptical of his wanting to try. A few things have changed like he now gives me little kisses here and there and hugs. While I do acknowledge those changes and praise him for them, we still sleep in separate beds, because the dogs sleep out at night and they get into the bed and push me out so its just easier to sleep in my own bed. He would not let me put them up at night. The really sad part is, I tried for so many years that now I am not sure I care.
Glad to hear she is going to the drs. Maybe that will bring to light the cause of some of the problems.
oral, which I could not even get into. I know for myself I am pretty skeptical of his wanting to try. A few things have changed like he now gives me little kisses here and there and hugs. While I do acknowledge those changes and praise him for them, we still sleep in separate beds, because the dogs sleep out at night and they get into the bed and push me out so its just easier to sleep in my own bed. He would not let me put them up at night. The really sad part is, I tried for so many years that now I am not sure I care. 
