Denver, I agree with what you're saying, but in this case his W suggested going to see the joint counselor -- I took that to mean she was proposing taking a step to work on things. That's why I feel the Rvaiellle door is open. In amy case if she goes because she feels pressured, she still goes. I haven't heard of anyone coming out of that saying it made things worse -- at worst it just didn't get much better. If I were Rough I would take those odds all day long versus meeting with an MC. My informal survey of talking to people about MC suggests about a 90% failure rate.
Accuray
I agree with all of that. But I don't think that his W was suggesting that they go to MC because she wants to work things out. She was suggesting it as a means for the two of them to have a conversation about where they are going with their S. At least that's how I understood it.
I just feel that he's only going to get one shot at something like this and that, maybe, he'd be better waiting until he's made some more progress.
Like I said though, it could go either way.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
