Denver, I agree with what you're saying, but in this case his W suggested going to see the joint counselor -- I took that to mean she was proposing taking a step to work on things. That's why I feel the Rvaiellle door is open. In amy case if she goes because she feels pressured, she still goes. I haven't heard of anyone coming out of that saying it made things worse -- at worst it just didn't get much better. If I were Rough I would take those odds all day long versus meeting with an MC. My informal survey of talking to people about MC suggests about a 90% failure rate.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
