Awesome Denver. I think this might be a long shot. I feel I've already reached out to her but at the same time I DO feel a "Hail Mary" is needed. I will probably send it in the AM.

"...There is a marital retreat that I would love for us to go to. I don't know if it will help us figure this out, but I know that it can't hurt. I am definitely interested in going to it and am wondering if you might be as well. I want one last opportunity to work on our marriage. To truly take a look at our relationship. Then we can think about it and decide what we want to do. Do we move forward together or do we do it apart? It is set up where we'd be in the same room, but there would be two beds. Again, I'm not trying to pressure you at all. I just saw this opportunity and thought that I would see what you think about it. If you'd rather give it some more time and then consider doing something like this later on down the road, I am fine with that too."