WRT pressure, the only pressure you're going to impose here is if you let W know that you expect Retrouville to "fix things". If you can go into it without that expectation, then I don't see how you're pressuring W.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015