Go to Retrouville -- if you have someone to watch the kids and it's in your area, then you have nothing to lose by proposing it to W in my opinion. I have read many reviews of Retrouville and spoken to a few couples who have gone personally. 80% of the time it helped the couples reconcile. 20% of the time it did not -- but no one felt it was a waste of time, no one gave it a negative review or wished they didn't go. If nothing else, you'll add some "successful relationship tools" to your arsenal, and we all need as many of those as we can get!
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
