Wow... Such powerful insight and advice from everyone.
I haven't done anything for him not to trust other than detach and begin to enjoy life again by hanging out with my friends and taking some time for myself. As soon as my attention shifted from the sitch to me, he started obsessing.
I set the boundary of not texting, talking or FBn the OW in our house and he has obliged thus far. I told him that I was an option and that I will not share him with any OW.
He continues to say that he loves me but he's so confused about what he wants.
I am afraid that if he decides to leave, that it will be because of something I said or did. That somehow, all of this was my fault
