I don't want the house, I want a new house, a blank canvas that I can call my own for me and the kids. This will happen next summer at the latest, moving in with family will help me alot right now, both financially and emotionally.
Exactly. What is stopping you? Nothing. That is what I would do.
^^^ Cheers Denver, this is the validation I think I needed.
A solicitor (lawyer) would advise me to stay put, but for my sitch it isn't going to affect access with the children or being bought out of the house.
The time my children are with me will be quality time and I will make sure my workload is up to date so they get to spend 3 great days and nights with dad every week.
I need to do this now for me.
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13