Accepting reality, moving on with my life

[breakdownbill]

Thanks Denver

My M is over (legally no, but will be soon), it makes no difference to my W if I am here or not, it won't slow down what she is doing with the OM.

I don't care what she does now, the door is shut on any R with me and if she changed her mind & came back now I would reject her advances. I need the time apart from her, whether that is permanent or not only time will tell, but right now she is not someone I want a R with.

If I can still see my kids 3 nights and 3 days a week on my own (quality time), whilst having 4 days & nights to get through my UNI work and get my life back on track, what is stopping me?

I don't want the house, I want a new house, a blank canvas that I can call my own for me and the kids. This will happen next summer at the latest, moving in with family will help me alot right now, both financially and emotionally.