It has been a couple of days since what happened on Sunday between my W and I and I've had time to let things settle. Now I'm starting to wonder just how much longer I can stick living in the same house as her.
Do you think what I wrote yesterday about splitting the time we spend at the house together with the kids could work in the short term?
I know that it goes against what what you should do when getting a divorce but I really want to move out now. Even if it is just to my parents or sister's place for the short term, the kids could stay there with me for my 3 nights anyway if I moved out.
My W said that she would sign the paperwork agreeing to buy me out of the house and to a 60 / 40 split on residency for the children.
If I moved out now instead of the summer would it really make that much difference to my situation?
Sorry I didn't respond to you yesterday Bill. I missed that post somehow.
I think that it really is up to you whether or not you can handle such an arrangement. It may yet be difficult on you emotionally. Your statement:
"Now I'm starting to wonder just how much longer I can stick living in the same house as her."
makes me wonder if that is what is best for you.
Personally? I couldn't do it.
Otherwise, I don't see how it could affect your situation.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
