Originally Posted By: Mystify

I know DB says not to "Snoop" I have been doing a good job at this until recently. But now I just do not know what to do? Should I ask him about deleting the history? I work on PC's for my job so he knows I would notice that. Maybe he wants me to ask about it? I really feel like he is doing everything in his power to irritate me so much that I make the choice to leave so he does not have to. I just do not know what to do? Ignore if for now? The old me would come right out and say 'WTF"!!!


I know the urge to snoop is HUGE. I was there in an earlier version of my situation a couple years ago. I found that I can't do it anymore. The snooping, and the information that is found, becomes a giant beast that can't be destroyed. I became obsessed with finding more information and constantly dwelled on the info that was found.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done