Yes you can counter act it. No one said anything about "stopping" it because you're right, you can't control her actions.
You counteract her emotions by fulfilling her needs the same as the OM. You notice the OM is not forcing her to do anything. He just agrees with her and "understands" her. This is different than being just "friends" with her.
No matter what, you two share kids and share a history. You need to use that knowledge combined with her thinking now and bring out the positives.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
