Hello all. I am feeling a bit defeated today. Maybe it is just my own paranoia? But I feel like I am on the right track. However my H just seems to repeating negative behavior over and over and over. And it is getting to me a bit.
1. The last few times he has used the PC he has deleted all of this internet history form the PC. The first time I noticed this I really tried to ignore it now it has gone one for the last 3-4 times he has used the computer. I am debating on installing a keylogger. I am conflicted here as I do not want to "Spy" but his lack of communication is having its toll.
2. He called me at work asking what his Bank password was. I called him back and tried to understand if he was asking what his card pin is or access to the website. We have joint accounts and he could not get his account to work. I said it has been so long I could not remember what his PW was so I said just use mine. He said ok. Then a few minutes latter he called back asking what my security question answers were so I gave him those. When I got home I asked him what was so urgent that he need the login info right then and it could not wait until I got home. He said nothing. I just wanted to look loan rates up. Now you do not need login info to look up the rates. I just left it alone. I did not want to get into an argument.
3. He then went to he PC after dinner and used the PC I did walk by the office to let the dogs out and I saw he has the bank website up. Then later he had a car website up. So then why delete the history. This is just so frustrating.
I know DB says not to "Snoop" I have been doing a good job at this until recently. But now I just do not know what to do? Should I ask him about deleting the history? I work on PC's for my job so he knows I would notice that. Maybe he wants me to ask about it? I really feel like he is doing everything in his power to irritate me so much that I make the choice to leave so he does not have to. I just do not know what to do? Ignore if for now? The old me would come right out and say 'WTF"!!!
