Nothing. I can not stop her from talking to or seeing the other guy. She is her own person and will make her own decision and there is nothing i can do to stop it.

That is the thing. I have read stories where people went into friend mode and was there for her emotionally throughout their wives affair and others I have seen state that they are not OK with them dating and that they would not be part of their lives as long as that is going on. My head is spinning.


M:30
W:31
D:6&1
S:3
Married 9 years 8/8/2012
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Bomb Dropped: July 2012
Legally Separated: 8/3/2012