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So apparently I am bad at this because I thought by sympathising with her I was validating how she feels. So leason for the day do not condone her actions.

As for the dating while being separated. She has got it in her head that it is OK to date. Partically because my stupid therapist suggested we eventially start dating other people. And for some reason the priest at our church said it was OK to date which for some reason I do not believe. I dont want this to get any further than it already is. I know I can not control what she does but I also have not stated how I felt about us dating other people. I even asked the lawyer when we started this whole separation process about us dating other people and he said this is not a get out of jail free card and if either one of us dates or brings the OM/OW around the kids before the divorce he needs to know so he can prepare for it.

That is why I am torn....say something and piss her off or continue to shut my mouth. Both senarios will probably end in her dating the dude anyways.