"I told her do not listen to them they did not walk in your shoes and if they only knew what you went through they would understand."

That's not the same as validation. You can understand how she got to that point, but you DO NOT condone her action. There's a difference.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER