So I have a question about this OM. What should I do because I intercepted an email sent from her FB account talking about our marriage to this guy.
W: "Thanks, it's good to know that I am not the only person that struggles with the Church's stance. I spent nine years in a marriage that should of never happened due to the fear of being a "sinner". I finally got the courage to leave and now I feel that I am on trial-even after a year of therapy through the church. Have fun at the concert."
Wife did not go through a year of therapy from the church she went to 2-3 session one with me in it.
OM: "Don't let the church guilt you. Be a good person and god will know. My opinion anyhow. If anybody give you any grief or "looks", you give it back."
W: "Thanks, I agree Have a fun weekend; see you Sunday."
My wife said she didnt want me to go to church because it felt weird with me being there but really she was chatting it up with this guy.
Like i said before nothing has happened yet as in dating. But these FB messages are getting deeper and it will lead to something. Should I comfront her about my stance on dating while we are separate....not ask her about the other guy just state that I am not OK with either of us dating and that if there is another many that i will not be part of her life and he will not be allowed around the kids. Or should I just keep my mouth shut?
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012