i'm not sure that intimacy is still out of the question. I don't know if it has only disappeared because of the sex issue, or if its not there for her at all. She really seems to have no interest in it. I was able to tell her that i need the intimacy and asked if she could help me work it out with her. Tell me how to make it work for her too. The response was that i had now broken her trust and she doesn't see how she could be intimate with me. I'm not sure what it would take to get to that point..i haven't asked yet.
