Have you read DR? If not, it would probably be a wise idea.
It's time to try and read it again. It's been a while. I say "try" because I'm so exhausted I don't think I can stay awake!
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done