(((((((jks)))))) I am so happy that you are going to see a therapist...this is a sign that you are starting to ficus on YOUR well being and not your H's sh!tstorm of a life. Good.for.you. :-)

I want to echo labug on the dating thing.. so many people seem to think that the only sign of us getting better or 'moving on' is to be in a R. And if we are not, then we are stuck or still pining for H. I just think its time I want for myself. Doesn't mean i am not healing, or moving forward with my life. Moving forward does not equal R with someone else IMO.

What a GREAT day with your kids! I love that time of year and Halloween and the air at that time. Enjoy! What wonderful memories you are giving your children (((( ))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home