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Re: Sitting on the Blanket bustingout #2287722 10/09/12 06:09 PM
Joined: May 2012 Posts: 2,595 B bustingout OP Member
OP bustingout Member B Joined: May 2012 Posts: 2,595	So today i finally asked H about Winter break. I asked him from a financial point of view. Made it clear i was speaking for me and the kids..i did not want him to think i was overtly or covertly trying to get him to join us, commit or even consider that I was hoping he might join us. No pressure, no expectations, He knows where we will be and if he wants to join I am sure he does not need an invite from me. Do you think thats ok? Or should I have said something like 'i don't know what you are thinking of doing, but of course join us if you want' ?? Sometimes i feel i pull away too much and stop shooing any sign of keeping the road home smooth and paved.... TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home

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Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 06:39 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Breakdown	09/25/12 07:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/25/12 07:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 08:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	longrun	09/25/12 08:40 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	figure-it-out	09/25/12 09:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/26/12 12:34 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	JustStunned	09/26/12 08:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	09/26/12 09:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:15 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/27/12 08:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 09:12 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	09/28/12 01:17 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 12:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 03:06 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 03:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 04:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 09:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	09/28/12 09:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/28/12 10:33 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/29/12 02:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 05:09 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:00 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	09/29/12 07:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:29 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 12:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/30/12 12:46 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 06:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 07:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/30/12 11:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/01/12 01:10 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/01/12 05:21 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/01/12 05:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/01/12 06:22 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/01/12 01:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	10/01/12 01:59 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/01/12 07:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/02/12 05:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/02/12 01:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 05:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/02/12 05:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 06:27 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/02/12 07:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/03/12 10:04 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/03/12 07:38 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/03/12 08:28 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/06/12 06:02 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/06/12 07:38 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/08/12 07:33 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/08/12 08:43 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/08/12 09:22 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/08/12 09:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/08/12 09:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/09/12 02:04 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/09/12 06:31 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 08:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/09/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/10/12 01:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 03:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 05:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 06:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/10/12 06:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 06:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:22 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/10/12 09:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/10/12 09:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/12/12 08:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/12/12 11:32 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:24 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:48 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 07:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 09:47 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/13/12 10:15 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 10:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/13/12 01:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/13/12 04:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/13/12 05:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/14/12 12:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/14/12 03:59 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/14/12 05:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/14/12 03:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/14/12 06:05 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/15/12 01:52 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Wendylon	10/15/12 07:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/15/12 10:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 05:06 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:52 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/09/12 07:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 07:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/06/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 04:44 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/07/12 05:18 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 03:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/06/12 08:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 06:28 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:16 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:49 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:46 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:10 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	09/27/12 12:17 AM

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