Hey SG,

This link will give you the insight. Page 18 and 19 cover the topic.I find it to be a VERY important skill to learn. Not easy, but highly effective. It sounds like your taking the right steps. Still a lot more to uncover but I am sure myself and the vets will help you out.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2279444&page=18