It's something that's gone unsaid on my boards, but it's something I think about a whole lot... My W... and I dare say most WAW's that go into relationships with OP... the confusion in their minds is at least equal to ours, the LBS... and I also believe that for those of us who truly try to use this as an opportunity to better ourselves... well we're always going to be in better shape in the long run... because we're stuck in this hellish introspective nightmare while they're distracting themselves with a new R... We embrace our pain and try to use it for "good"... and that's not always the case when someone leaves a marriage and jumps into the arms of another for comfort and solace.


This is lovely insight AT.

Arsene, I am so sorry about your pain right now. But you seem to working through it amazingly well. I believe in you and know you are going to be more than alright.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home