I struggle with the same, Some. I am noticing some things in my wife that I think clearly need a medial look and she is adamant about not going to a doctor at this point which is irresponsible. As with the EA and the WAS/MLC issues I am trying to understand I know I cannot control this.
It doesn't change how I GAL and what I do to improve myself except to see what course I would head if I weren't trying to remain focused on my health, but I don need to see her deteriorate as well.
Even our MC has suggested she visit a doctor to have a few of the symptoms looked at -- which probably did more harm as she is still against anyone analyzing her at the moment.
What a tough road this is.
Thanks, Williams. It sure is a tough road... it seems like a potential answer to THEIR happiness is right in front of us. It's not an answer to the marital problems, but at least the spouse may feel better day to day. It's very frustrating to see this but be unable to share or have it heard.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
