He was watching Machine Gun Preacher, actually a good movie,
Agree an awesome movie!
You are getting some very good advice and support from snodderly, who I have a ton of respect for but I did want to point out one thing that I noticed in your post.
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Had a surprisingly nice evening with H last night. Actually watched 2 movies together... well the first one I just kinda plopped myself down on the couch while we were eating and hadn't planned on staying for the whole thing, but it caught my attention so I did.
Given that your H is still in the house (I lived with mine for 18 months), the tendency is to notice any “act of kindness or normalcy” and take it for more than it is worth. I am not saying not to appreciate those moments and take that time to show your H what he may be missing, but I would just caution you to keep your expectation low.
From what I have read you are doing a great job!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
