Also - maybe being genuine means not always acting as if around W? If we can't act as if at a certain period of time, isn't what you did better? because maybe passive aggressiveness would have come through instead of being able to genuinely act as if? Just some thoughts...i am not sure myself.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home