Sry you're back again some guy and I'm probably the last person that shd offer advice but you did something right the last time that prompted reconciliation so I suggest a repeat. And, start immediately. Give her space and let her figure out the rest.
Thanks, lapoo.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done