Again, I confronted my W about her intentions and got that she is 'trying' and is not just here short term but 'is here.' However, she says she does not have the feeling she needs to have for me. I.e. she 'loves' me but is not in love with me. And she does not want to have sex with me, unless those feeling return.
I have done what I can to alter myself based on her claims, but now she says its something she has to fix. I am very frustrated by the situation, but I plan to refrain from sex with her for at least a month. Of course if she wants it, then I may lose my resolve.