Before the A, we both knew the whereabouts of each other. He'd ask and I never gave it a second thought. But now that I'm in this sitch, part of my 180 is not to be so forthcoming, it's difficult.
I want to aggressively get a life. I need that for me. Some attempts of GAL are successful but he noticed the changes and now questions my whereabouts that makes GAL more difficult. He holds the "I will leave" tactic over my head yet continues communication w/OW. H is no longer engaged with my family and tries to keep me away from his. It appears to me that he is tryn to remain married as well as keep OW. I don't want to wallow in that. I want to GAL to strengthen me. The only time he is not asking me about me is when he is w/OW and I think that is on Sundays. This is the day he says he's spending time with his family.
