Thanks 25 it does help. Ok no more mindreading, I'll try to recognize it. Unconsciously I'm doing it and so as her. But I can stop that cycle.

Today's temperature more hugs and kisses. I know I'm not out of the woods yet. It's not like I'm planning these things but it just happens. Like this morning, she overslept so I woke her up got close to her again and it happened again.

I am still giving her space around the house and of course the new me around the kids, I don't even call it 180 anymore it's just me being a better father than before.

I don't know what I feel, I know I'm not complaining. I don't want to mindread anymore I'll let you guys read my sitch.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.