Have you read Sandi's 37 rules that is located in the newcomers forum? No, But I will. Thanks Have you read Divorce Remedy? Not Yet, but I will get it. I would suggest giving her what she is asking for SPACE. I am doing that now, completely What kind of DAD are you? You have a child together. I am a really really good father. I spend a lot of time w/ my son and I provide a solid platform for him. He is doing really good. You need to be the best possible DAD to that child. Can you do that?