Hey vero, how about if you take what he's doing out of the picture and just focus on you. I'm not sure he's being confusing or if he's merely doing the minimum he can to not feel bad or guilty. It's human nature.

Tell him what you want and need for him in terms of the kids and see if he can do that.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss