I agree. I guess I am just worried that time is short with this matter. Our first hearing is a week from today.
There are two types of DIVORCE. Lets call them Legal and Spiritual.
She can get a legal divorce without your consent.
However it is just a piece of paper. You should not be afraid of a piece of paper.
If I hit you with a 2x4 it will hurt more than with a piece of paper.
However the other type of divorce requires your consent. As long as you feel that you are married there is nothing she can do to change your feelings.
You must detach, I would suggest taking that love putting it inside of a strong box, then place the box in a steel vault or up on a high shelf in your closet. Down the road you may want to get it out again. Not right now. As long as the box is in a safe place there can always be HOPE.
Now once it is up, safely on the shelf, then get on living your life, moving forward, step by step.
