I would like to try and work things out with my husband but I am beginning to think it is too late. I told him that I don't want to talk to him again until he stops talking to her and he said that's fine he won't call me anymore. I don't know if he does call if I should answer the phone or should I let him miss me for a while. I feel like nothing I do is working. I know the process is slow, but this has been going on for months. While he says he will always love me he also says he has fallen "in love" with OW. He lies to the both of us. I don't want to play a game. Deep in my heart I know we belong together but I don't know how much longer I can do this. I am so sad. I find it hard to do my job. He says that he doesn't know if he could ever work out the marriage because every time he looks at me it reminds him of how much pain he has caused me and how he has ruined my life and he feels so guilty. It makes me mad that he plays the feel sorry for me role when I am the one at home taking care of everything, totally devastated with the situation and he is off traveling and seeing her and her baby. What is the situation with you? Is you H still living with you? How are you handing things?
