Thanks. My first post never got published and I made a new one after some days. Now both got published at the same time, sorry for that.
She came today with the kid and we talked about how to seperate money-wise(she doesn't want me to pay more than I absolutely have to) and who has the kid when.
She doesn't want us to sign a contract (seperation), she feels the contract is made up the wrong way and we should make our own. I ask what is wrong with it and she is vague and general. About the only thing she mentioned is that in the contract you promise to never get back together.
She has now left for an appointment, but wants to take me and the kid shopping after. She also asked to stay after shopping and maybe we could eat dinner and watch the new episode of a show we really enjoy.
I'm torn. Initially I vaguely said yes. Now I don't know. Seems to me this is classic cake-eating. I want to either join them shopping or dinner/show, but not both. And a question rest in the back of my mind? Should I do either?
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
