Tumbling, I also hope you're feeling better and that you're not initiating any texting.
My recommendation is that when you next receive a text from him, post it here and wait for a response from this board before you answer it. That will extend the time frame a bit so that you're a little dimmer.
Good luck!
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012