I'm also dealing with the trust issues. My H was a very honest, loyal human being. Makes it very hard to let anyone in again. Huge risks are involved every time.

But, yes, you rebuild and hopefully something beautiful comes from it. Like a R far better than we ever dreamed with someone else.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.