Hi, its been quiet tonight. W not mentioned guaranot again. She slept in separate bed last night. She has resorted to filling in social housing applications.
Spoke to OM ex W who suspects he left her cos of A with W. Feel a bit stupid now. He left about same time as W had confused feelings. There is no proof and I am not looking for any. But I have to assume that A is happening. It all clicks into place. W wld not admit to A cos her ex H left her because of A. She knows the anger that will cause with family etc hence why she has cut them off. I think the plan was to move out and then they can say it happened since!
How do I handle this going forwards. Not sure yet if A is a dealbreaker or not. Want to keep on the db path for now. OM ex W wants to confront her H.
Also wld appreciate opinions on is this going to ever happen for me given these last few days.
