Thank you so much for your words. I still do love my husband but am having a really hard time with this. I can't sleep or eat. He travels 4-5 days a week with work and still talks to her all the time. Where do I start with the DB techniques. I feel like I have tried them all and none of them work. I had a really bad fight with him on Sunday and told him I never wanted to see him again, he called on Monday to talk to me about business stuff and I told him I couldn't talk to him as long as he was talking to her and he said that was fine that he wouldn't talk to me anymore. I feel like he want's to work things out but he feels to guilty so it would be easier to stay with her. He keeps saying he will go to therapy and then doesn't. Any advice on where to start. I don't think I will hear from him for a long time. He is in so much pain and won't get himself out of it. I have told him that I love him and would work things out but he keeps saying he can't forgive himself for what he's done. I said to him that I believe with therapy we could try and work things out but I am at the end of my rope. Where do I start.
