I am new to all of this. My husband and I have been together for 10 years and married for 5. We have been trying to get pregnant for almost 3 years and have gone thru many infertility treatments. I found out in Sept. that he has been having an affair with a married woman with a baby. He moved out in November to a friends and just told me last week that he got her pregnant and she had an abortion. I am in shock and confused. He said he stills loves me but could never forgive himself for what he has done to me so he thinks he should divorce me and won't come back. In the meantime I found out he has been telling the OW that he is in love with her and wants to move to be with her and her baby. Oh, by the way they also work together. He has told me on a number of occasions that he won't talk to her anymore but still continues to and then lie about it. I just feel like giving up on this marriage. Is there just a point to say no more. I still love him after what he has done and I don't know why. He has been so hurtful. I just don't know what to do anymore, any advice would be great!!
