I'd like to ammend a little...you can't do much of anything except (potentially) look better than the OM/OW.
The OM/OW isn't perfect, they'll react the same way with pressure and guilt and all that crap if things don't go their way too. : )
You scream and acts all possesive and stalker like? While the OM/OW doesn't. OR the OM/OW acts all possesive and stalker like? While you don't.
Who is going to look better?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying make them dinner, and turn down the sheets for them, just don't act like the crazy boyfriend/girlfriend from highschool or the movies.
Jack... Thank you SO much for commenting here!
I think I understand what you're saying here, but I'm not sure about the last part...
I know you're saying that I CAN be the better person here by continuing along the path of GAL, 180s etc... That by not being possessive and stalker like... well I'm winning...
But I'm not sure about the "I'm not saying make them dinner..." portion... Maybe I just didn't get the gist of that part, as I'm currently in a "dark" phase (after the most recent events) I won't be doing any of those things...
