Just curious, why ask AT what his W said about the OM, if everyone was just going to discount it as a lie?
FTR, I never advise a betrayed spouse to ask their walkaway/wayward spouse if they're cheating, for the reason you state. Not sure what Denver was trying to get it, but I'm sure he can explain his thoughts on it.
Starsky
And FTR, I didn't explicitly ask... The information naturally popped into the conversation.